For me, it's any character who gets taken way out of their comfort zone that gets me. Specifically characters who seem very good at covering up a lot of the issues they have lying underneath. Something traumatic or horrific happening to them strips that artifice away pretty quickly and shows them on a much more emotionally vulnerable level, that gets you to sympathise. And then in that state you have the comfort part. Does this make any sense?
Re: Non-Con Strange: what's going on here?